Every afternoon when the man in bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and fine view of the city skyline could be seen in distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn’t hear the band-he could see it. In his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside the window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, “Perhaps he just walked to encourage you.”

Hope you guys learn something about this story! Okay! That’s it for now ’cause I still have to check this rv towing I’ve found earlier this day. My Aunt whose in US right now is asking me I had an idea about it. I told here that let me check first in the net. Glad to say that I found this one! This will definitely be a great help for her! What about you guys? Need it too? Check for yourself!

Anyway, there were actually several coolest place we can found here on Earth. The only thing that stoping us is the deniable freedom of financial needs. A lot of us wants to travel the world and see the real beauty in it that God bestowed to us. But sad to say that not everyone can afford to enjoy the things we see and the things we long to have. There were people out there who are craving for it but it takes a lifetime to achieve what they want.

Moreover, the bottom line is we had a dream to conquer that coolest place. We are fighting against life obstacles that drags us down. We just need to face the reality that life is a constant change. By that, we need to believe that there’s still tomorrow and the sun will shine to us. Likewise, if you need one thing you must do your part and exert more effort to chieve that goal. Don’t just sit their and wait for something to come! Keep in mind that you can only reach the coolest place on Earth if you also do your part. So, keep moving!

That was the common outlets I used to do just to aid the boredome I feel back home. As this present time, I thank God for giving me a precious friends I have found in this place. They are all amazing! When times that I don’t have left in my pocket they lend me some. When times that I need their moral support they were there. When times that I need a friend to lean on they were also there. When times I have nothing, they never left me behind they even carry me. For a quite some time now staying in this desert place of the world, I could really say that I’m now a fuly grown person. I might don’t know several things yet but I know I’m going there. Thank you to all the person who was with me and sharing a spare part of your life despite the very busy time you had. No word could ever tell how much I treasure you all. You are all simply fantastic. More graces for us all in the coming days, months and years!

As I owe the said position, I also have the choice to moved out from the company accommodation. In fact, as of now and as I write this post I’m already here in my new accommodation where I have a new friends too. They were all marvelous and pretty amazing ’cause they welcome me into this place. Though I have several adjustments but I know I can handle it as they were all nice to me specially my room mates who are so nice and kind hearted. Thank you guys for accepting me here!

Anyway, my life here in abroad is pretty fast! I never thought that its been almost a year that I been working here! Wohh… Thanks to those people who in one way helps me a lot to surpassed all the trials I been through in this place specially my Aunt and relatives here, friends whom I never thought I they were generous and kind, work mates who are patient in teaching me even though they keep on hearing an alarms for break time still they were kind to teach me everything that I need to know at work. Thanks all guys!

Top10 Things to be happy:

1. 1. Wake up with a smile. Despite the troubles and hardships we all have, Try to smile every time you woke up. Remember we all have a chance to change the destiny if we want too and if we will work on.
   2. Be inspired. I know its hard to put into words on how to be inspired every time we start our day. But the simple reason to think to be inspired is your ALIVE. Means your being given a another chance to explore the beauty of the world.
   3. Extend your Love & Care to others. To love and beloved is the simple explanation of becoming happy. Share your love to others even if they are strangers to you by just showing your care that means a lot for them.
   4. Do what makes you happy. Don’t listen to those people who keep telling you to do this, to do that and anything. Follow what your desires though its good to listen advices but still in end your the master of your own life.
   5. Do what you think is right! Even if how risky it is but if you think that it is the right things to do then fight for it. Don’t give up ’til you get what you need. But remember not everything will be given to you.
   6. Show your LOVE to your family. Family is the only one who will be with us ’til the end. Even if how sinner we are nor how many times we fail their expectations still they will accept us. Asking why? Simply because they are our family. Let the word expound for you.
   7. Look for your LOVE. I mean look for the person who will be with you in sickness and in health, in richer & in poorer. You know what I mean? I guess, we all know about it. So, try to spend time with them as much as you can ’cause its the best key to become happy ’til the end.
   8. Share what you have. Are you aware of the saying ” Its better to give than to receive” Are you? Well, let the phrase speak for himself. It means a lot of happiness.
   9. Be with your friends. They are our second family. In fact, they will make us happy with all those crazy things you been spending together nor those happenings that let you smile.
   10. Put HIM in the mid of everything. Theres no other happiness we could ever claim if not because of HIM. Theres no other difficulties and success if without HIM. Always ask for his guidance as you travel along in your journey. Its the best key to be happy!

Have a great day everyone!…c”,

Exert your best effort to be positive in all circumstances.. If you love someone or care for them.. point out their negative side and mistakes and encourage them to avoid somebody, work on becoming a mirror that reflects his true rather than mistaken image.. after all, what are the benefits of human relations if not properly invested, if the standards of happiness are not known in this world and if we were unable to win others.

May this reflection tells you how wonderful life is! And may this reflection guide you to the road of fulfillments! Keep in mind that nothing compares to a beautiful heart even a wholesale clothing you had. Happiness is not measured by how many, by material things or even by m0ney. It is measured according to fulfillments, relationship to your family, friends and loved-ones. Have a great journey everyone!

Basically, staying at home during leisure times will definitely suck you up if you let the day passed without doing something! Remember, we are all gifted by “HIM” the power of thinking. If you won’t use it then I guess, you are nothing! Your mind is the key to became happy and likewise enjoy every single seconds you spend in your life. So, use your mind and imagination and let it be the one to guide you to where you should be and what to do instead of just sleeping all day long!

Remember, life is great if you make it great! Life is nothing if you won’t think! Though those pool cues games too is great for leisures times at home still you have to managed your time and use it wisely. Nothing will happens to you if you keep on waiting for somebody to do it for you or waiting for someone to stimulate your mind.

Nevertheless, games like pool cue, watching tv’s, sleeping, exercise, reading books, web surfing and some other interesting things are simply one of the few things you can do at home during leisure time. Just make sure that you learn something new and add it in your minds complilation.

There are a lot of  miserable people on this planet, despite the halo of luxury and happiness around them – so many times we come across people in the power and authority, yet lacking the quality of dialogue and communication with others – some are so obsessed with pride, hypocrisy, etc and do not possess the standards of success to win other people on their side and to gain their love, so they become rather abhorring without knowing why. You may find someone who never knows the bliss of giving, never understand the meaning of sacrifice or love, never adopts honesty and integrity in his dealings with others. Do you possess such bad qualities or any part thereof? ( If your answer is no)… you are much happier and far better off than all the aforementioned – so, do not be sad, if one of these days you bumped across a certain problem of you lost something, remember all the other qualities that you possess… strive to obtain the best qualities that you may acquire and develop.

Honestly, have you ever asked yourself whether someone out there needs your help…yet his pride would not let him come forward? Have you felt that there are so many people in pain and grief and that you are in a position to alleviate their sufferings? Then.. what did you do? Come on.. look around you, you shall find a lot of nearby people who might need you, in particular, may be they just need a good word from you.. You might instill or save hope in a desperate heart . Just as like this sd flash memory where you can save all your file as a means of your battling life.. do not wait too long as there are many people waiting.. Have you mistreated someone? Try to remember, go back in your memory lane and clean it up.. Then, try to correct that mistake. Believe me, you shall feel so happy and nothing else would make you happier.. It is so magnificent to bring joy into the hearts of others.

To be continued…

Although we witness various aspects of happiness in the world, yet some of us are overwhelmed with worries and grief rendering this world before us literally plain, without beauty nor dreams, and happiness, eventually escape us. So, we cry and weep and feel that mountains of unhappiness are burdening our chest only, while other are not experiencing such ordeal. We begin to feel we are the most wretched and miserable people on the face of this earth, hence, our willpower grows weaker and we take refuge in despair, without realizing that we were actually surrendering to a demon, obsessed on distancing our souls away from the safe haven of safety and tranquility, and on throwing us in the boundless ocean of weakness and disassociation.

But, had anyone asked himself once… Am I really unhappy in this world? Had any of you compared himself with someone who is less opulent than he is? Have yo realized the standards of happiness in your life? Have you realized that you are perhaps more fortunate than others in this world, and that there is someone out there whose status is actually worse that yours? By God Almighty, happiness is embedded in our inner self but we do not feel it! You do not know what you are missing until you actually miss it! We should rather praise God when we came across a blind man who cannot see, while we can – a paralyzed person – a mentally ill person – another with malignant diseases woman, unable to conceive a child – a handicapped boy – a man who lost all his family.. a drug addict – an alcoholic – who does not know how to quite… this is the person who does not know prayers… The house, they contain, within their walls, all kinds of shattering and saddening stories.

To be continued…..